I've been where you are.
When I was going through my divorce, the overwhelming experience was complete isolation and devastation. I felt like I was adrift in the middle of the ocean — no land in sight, treading water for years.
I went online looking for help. I found five support groups a night for women. For men? One a month if I was lucky.
Divorce support for men just doesn't exist. Many men are left devastated and alone to drown after divorce — and then handed the bill for it. I've watched good men, good brothers, good fathers, check out. Through alcohol. Through isolation. Some permanently.
And that is why our society has a deficit of good men today.
The majority of good men haven't disappeared. They've been destroyed by a system that devalues men and their essential contributions to society and families.
I decided I wasn't going to be one of them.
I went deep. Through coaching, through medicine ceremony, through the kind of inner work most men are never given permission to do. I found the pain hiding underneath the anger — the sadness I'd been carrying since I was a boy. And when I finally addressed my pain at the root, the anger alchemized into power.
That's when I understood what men actually need. Not anger management classes. Not talk therapy. Not another class that treats the symptom. A path to the root — to the core wounds — so a man can rise up out of this with his strength, his sovereignty, and his value intact and turn his pain into power.
The Sacred Path for Men is the program I wish had existed when I was at my lowest.
I'm honored you're here and I welcome you to join us.